The funeral is over.  You are, perhaps
     for the first time, alone with grief, problems
     and fears.  You are fortunate if you and your
     mate anticipated and planned for this life crisis,
     while both of you were able to help. But, even so,
     you have many adjusments to make.

          Before you make major decisions--wait a few
     months, or even a year.  Don't rush into selling youyr home, investments or other assets
     of similar magnitude until you have given yourself time to recover from your home, 
     investments or other assets of similar magnitude until you have given yourself time to 
     recover from your grief and look at things more objectively.  Be cautious of well meaning,
     but not always correct advice from friends and relatives, and seek, professional advice on 
     matters of importance.
                    
          Don't compound your unhappiness by making farreaching decisions that you'll later regret.
     Take time to regain control of yourself, and plan carefully for your future.  If you have
     questions, our services are available.  Many times, we are able to assist you as much after,
     as at the time of death.  Please call at any time.